Quite a while back I wrote a post called “My Husband Hates Me… at least it feels that way.”
You can find the original post here – “My husband hates me… at least it seems that way.”
That post has gotten more comments than any post I’ve written. I’m sure that’s in part because of the felt-need nature of the post.
Recently I got another comment on the post from a woman who calls herself “Frustrated.” Her situation is all too common.
Before I share here question and my reply, let me say this…
There is nothing more delicate than trying to give advice to a hurting wife. Emotions are already high and the risk of additional hurt being done through the advice is high as well. My desire is to help. But to really help, truth has to be spoken. It’s seldom easy to hear, especially when you’re already in the throes of a difficult or hurtful situation. But it’s the only thing that will provide the kind of wisdom that is truly needed.
Here’s what “Frustrated” wrote to me…by