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life change

Clarity, Certainty, Confidence – life changing benefits of scripture

Posted by Carey 
· Friday, September 26th, 2014 

Life changing. It’s an over-used word in our day and age.

Everyone from business gurus to doctors are touting the “life changing” effects of their system, program, or method.

It’s enough to make you a skeptic for life.

But don’t go there just yet. There truly are some life changing things in the world, and scripture is one of them.

I want to quickly outline 3 things that come from a right knowledge of the scriptures that are truly life changing.

1 Clarity

Yes, there are parts of the Bible that are less than clear. I know that. I get that.

But overall, the Bible is God’s revelation to us about things we wouldn’t know otherwise.

Think that one through for a minute: God who knows everything has “revealed” things to us through the scriptures. That’s an incredible gift.

Sure, it takes the hard work we call “study” to truly understand it sometimes, but what do you expect when God-sized truths need to be understood by human-sized minds?

The scriptures are intended to provide “clarity” to us about things that are beyond us. Things like…

  • How to be made right with God.
  • What God thinks about us.
  • What God has done for us (way beyond our salvation).
  • How we are to live in the world (both in terms of proper behavior and in terms of what resources to use to do it).

I want clarity on those things. Do you?

If so, scripture is the only place you’ll find it.

2 Certainty

How many things in life are you truly certain of?

  • That your children will not rebel and go off the deep end?
  • That your spouse will remain faithful?
  • That your income is secure?
  • That your health is guaranteed?

But…

 

life changing word of God

 

3 Confidence

There’s a progression happening here that you may not have noticed.

Clarity or understanding brings certainty. Certainty brings confidence.

When we are able to understand, know, and rely on what God has said to us, we can live in a way that baffles the world and brings great stability to us, no matter what challenges or obstacles may come our way.

That’s because we’re able to move out, proactively, into the storms and trials of life with an underlying peace that supports us through everything.

We don’t have to be timid.

We don’t have to be afraid.

We don’t have to wish upon a star, or rub a rabbit’s foot, or say any kind of mantra or magic spell.

We have confidence based on what the God of all the universe has said.

Let me say it another way…

Understanding + Trust = Active faith.

And it comes through time spent reading, studying, and internalizing God’s word.

My encouragement to you… no, my challenge to you is to become more intentional, more aggressive about getting God’s revealed truth into your mind and heart, and to take your family with you.

There are many ways you can go about it, but here are a couple that I’ve found helpful.

  • Find scripture put to music – it’s a powerful way to use the catchy nature of music to embed scripture in your soul.
  • Use scripture flash cards to learn Bible verses together at dinner time or breakfast.
  • Include scripture in your family devotional times.

Finally, here’s a motivational video from John Piper. In 8 simple statements he outlines the benefits of memorizing scripture.

Don’t skip the video. Take the time to watch it.

Now.

 

How are you going to act? What are you going to do to provide life changing clarity, certainty, and confidence to your family?
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memorizing scripture

Podcast 69 – Why having your kids memorize scripture could DESTROY them

Posted by Carey 
· Wednesday, April 23rd, 2014 

In this episode of the Christian home and Family podcast, I want to show you how getting your kids to memorize Bible verses may not help them, and how it could even go farther to destroy their lives.

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Let me be clear. I LOVE the Bible. I believe it to be God’s word, divinely inspired, and profitable for our instruction, edification, and teaching. I can’t tell you how much I have grown because of the truths the scriptures contain. I read it every single day of my life.

BUT, I also know, from personal experience, that a head full of Bible verses can be a very damaging thing. You can know what the scriptures say, and have it do absolutely no good in your life. Memorizing scripture, by itself, is not enough.

The same is true of your children.

You can enroll them in AWANAs or Pioneer Club, or Child Evangelism Fellowship, (all very wonderful organizations, by the way), and you could encourage your kids to memorize all the Bible verses in the world, but if you don’t do one, vital thing, it won’t help them one tiny, little bit.

What is it you’ve got to do?

You’ve got to help them UNDERSTAND what all those Bible verses mean.

Picture a bible verse or a passage of scripture like a suitcase. You want to open up that verse or passage, and unpack all the nuggets of truth it contains. You want to walk through it, word by word, phrase by phrase, to make sure your kids are understanding, on their level, what the verse is actually SAYING.

That can be a very hard thing to do, can’t it.

I’m a busy man. I’ve got soccer to get the kids to, and work to do every day, and housework and chores, and meals to prepare, and friends to see, and groceries to buy, and homeschooling to do, and a hunting trip I’m planning for, and a men’s group at church, and honestly, I don’t have time to sit down with my kids between every Sunday school class or weekly AWANA meeting and help them understand the verses they’re being asked to memorize!

Wait a minute.

I hope you see how ridiculous that sounds. To believe, even for a second, that you’re too busy to help your children understand God’s word, is like saying you’re too busy to breathe. It’s like saying that all those activities and responsibilities that make up your life are more important than your children’s eternal well being and spiritual health. It’s ridiculous.

So, how do you do it? How do you help your kids unpack the Bible verses they’re getting week after week after week?

FIRST – You’ve got to reassess your life. If you have so many things going on, individually or as a family, that you can’t sit down for 15 to 20 minutes with your children, once a week, so that you can review and talk about their Bible memory lessons, you are WAY too busy. Something has got to go. I know that sounds radical, but Jesus is a radical Savior. He doesn’t just want your kids to know what His word says, He wants them to UNDERSTAND what it MEANS and how it applies to their young lives. So, if making the time for this seems overwhelming, that’s a good sign that you’ve got too much on your plate. Unload some things for the sake
of your kids.

SECOND – Do it. As you help the kids review their verses, stop and discuss each phrase in its logical sequence.

Here’s an example: If the verse says, “God so loved the world that He gave His only Son,” stop and talk about who God is – their Creator, King, and Ruler. Help them understand what the verse means when it refers to “the world.” Is that them, grandma, the boy down the street? Unpack what it means that God “gave” His Son, by describing the incredibly powerful loving act it was for Jesus to step out of heaven and become a human being. And behind all that, help your kids understand why God needed to give us anything in the first place. Help your children understand their own sin, and how it separates them from God. Help them understand their own need for God. Show them how His great heart of love motivated Him to do the most amazing, sacrificial thing ever, to overcome their sin problem and make them His own.

That’s just one example. And the Bible has hundreds of thousands of verses in it, all with their own deeply impacting, eternally significant meaning. If you let your kids cram the words into their heads without the meaning, your feeding them food without the nutrients, and it will wind up destroying them. They’ll become confident that they know the scriptures, when they really only know the words. They’ll become self-righteous little hypocrites instead of passionate followers of Christ.

Parents, don’t let a wonderful thing like the word of God become a poison to your kids’ souls. Take the time, MAKE the time, to help your children unpack God’s word as they work to  memorize scripture.

I’m available for speaking on this and other topics. Find out more at http://www.ChristianHomeandFamily.com/speaking

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condemning voice

Podcast 65 – Help your kids fight the condemning voice in their head

Posted by Carey 
· Wednesday, March 26th, 2014 

TODAY’S PODCAST

Podcast 65 – Help your kids fight the condemning voice in their head

 

Everyone fights those nagging little voices of condemnation that speak to their own minds. It’s part of the human condition. But for Christians, there is a powerful way to deal with those lies, and it’s based on the truths God has shared with us in His word.

Parents, you have to know that your kids are going to struggle with those same issues. In fact, they probably already do, even the younger ones. In this episode, Carey is going to walk you through a passage from the book of Hebrews and show you how the truth found there is able to help you and your kids deal with the condemning thoughts and voices that threaten to hold you back from living with confidence as God intends.

Music used by permission of Adam Rey – http://www.HeyReyGuitar.com

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Meat & Potatoes by Adam ReyThe main music track used in the Christian Home and Family Podcast is entitled, “Midian” and is from Adam Rey’s instrumental album Meat & Potatoes – Adam has generously given me permission to use his music, so please, support his generosity by checking out and purchasing his music at www.heyreyguitar.com – (no affiliate relationship, Adam’s just my friend.) ** these are affiliate links

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the myth of safety

Podcast 64 – The myth of safety

Posted by Carey 
· Wednesday, March 19th, 2014 

TODAY’S PODCAST

Podcast 64 – The myth of safety


American (western) culture tries to convince us that we can be “safe.” We purchase insurance policies, save up cash, build retirement funds, all for the sake of being safe. But is it really true? As Christians, we even “Christian-ize” the concept, taking scriptures to support the view and to give ourselves a sense that God guarantees our safety because we are believers. It’s simply not true.

In this episode Carey is covering the basics of biblical faith in God, and how you can go about teaching your children how to trust in God rather than things, and to lean on Him in the difficulties that life is sure to bring.

Music in this podcast used by permission of Adam Rey – http://www.HeyReyGuitar.com

Contact Carey at http://www.ChristianHomeandFamily.com/contact

Learn how to leave us a review on iTunes at http://www.ChristianHomeandFamily.com/itunes

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Meat & Potatoes by Adam ReyThe main music track used in the Christian Home and Family Podcast is entitled, “Midian” and is from Adam Rey’s instrumental album Meat & Potatoes – Adam has generously given me permission to use his music, so please, support his generosity by checking out and purchasing his music at www.heyreyguitar.com – (no affiliate relationship, Adam’s just my friend.) ** these are affiliate links

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white lies

Podcast 63 – Little white lies, or big black sins?

Posted by Carey 
· Wednesday, March 12th, 2014 

TODAY’S PODCAST

Little white lies, or big black sins?


We all tell “little white lies” now and then. But are they really so little? And what impact do they have on the life and example of a Christian family? In this episode Carey talks about what God thinks of our “little white lies” and challenges us to be people of truth, people who example and reflect the truth of God in everything we do. He also talks about

Music in this podcast used by permission of Adam Rey – http://www.HeyReyGuitar.com

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Meat & Potatoes by Adam ReyThe main music track used in the Christian Home and Family Podcast is entitled, “Midian” and is from Adam Rey’s instrumental album Meat & Potatoes – Adam has generously given me permission to use his music, so please, support his generosity by checking out and purchasing his music at www.heyreyguitar.com – (no affiliate relationship, Adam’s just my friend.) ** these are affiliate links

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your children's faith

Podcast 62 – Your responsibility for your children’s faith in Christ

Posted by Carey 
· Wednesday, March 5th, 2014 

TODAY’S PODCAST

Your responsibility for your children’s faith in Christ

“Wait a minute! I thought my kids were responsible to have their OWN faith in Jesus!” They are. You can relax. That’s not what I’m talking about. Of course they have to choose to place their trust in Jesus, but the question is, “How are they going to get to that point?” THAT is where your responsibility as a Christian parent comes in.

In this episode Carey is going to talk you through Psalm 78, and discuss how YOU are responsible, in God’s eyes, for leading your children to the place that they are able to have faith in Christ. It’s a generational thing, one generation passing on the faith to another. It’s powerful.

Carey is available for speaking at your event. You can find out more at http://www.ChristianHomeandFamily.com/speaking

Music in this podcast used by permission of Adam Rey – http://www.HeyReyGuitar.com

Contact Carey at http://www.ChristianHomeandFamily.com/contact

Learn how to leave us a review on iTunes at http://www.ChristianHomeandFamily.com/itunes

Find products from Christian Home and Family at http://www.ChristianHomeandFamily.com/store

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Meat & Potatoes by Adam ReyThe main music track used in the Christian Home and Family Podcast is entitled, “Midian” and is from Adam Rey’s instrumental album Meat & Potatoes – Adam has generously given me permission to use his music, so please, support his generosity by checking out and purchasing his music at www.heyreyguitar.com – (no affiliate relationship, Adam’s just my friend.) ** these are affiliate links

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revamp

Podcast 61 – REVAMP! – changes to the podcast

Posted by Carey 
· Wednesday, February 26th, 2014 

SUMMARY OF TODAY’S PODCAST

REVAMP!

I’ve been taking a break from podcasting for the last 4 to 5 months. I did so because I wanted to make sure I was “practicing what I preach” regarding keeping family priorities in order. So, during a time of huge transition for my family, I took some time off from the podcast to make sure the family was getting the attention from me that was needed.

I’m back! – and I’m revamping the podcast a bit. After careful consideration and prayer, I’m taking a new approach to the way I do this podcast, including the use of video. You can find out more details in this episode.

Find the show notes for this episode at http://www.ChristianHomeandFamily.com/61

Contact Carey at http://www.ChristianHomeandFamily.com/contact

Find out how you can leave a rating and review for the podcast on iTunes at http://www.ChristianHomeandFamily.com/itunes

 

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Meat & Potatoes by Adam ReyThe main music track used in the Christian Home and Family Podcast is entitled, “Midian” and is from Adam Rey’s instrumental album Meat & Potatoes – Adam has generously given me permission to use his music, so please, support his generosity by checking out and purchasing his music at www.heyreyguitar.com – (no affiliate relationship, Adam’s just my friend.) ** these are affiliate links

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scripture memory songs

Podcast 60 – Scripture Memory Songs with Danny Stephens

Posted by Carey 
· Wednesday, October 30th, 2013 
Today’s Guest

Danny Stephens

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SUMMARY OF TODAY’S PODCAST

Scripture Memory Songs


I grew up through the 70s and 80s, eras of HUGE musical styles and progressions… and the melody and words of thousands of songs from those days are still embedded in my mind. Music is powerful… able to insert itself into our souls in ways like few other things. It makes sense to use God’s creation of music to help ourselves learn the transforming truths of His word. In this episode I’m talking with Danny Stephens, a member of the band “Smalltown Poets” and the creator of Pop Scripture Songs – and attempt to create a tool for helping kids, parents, families get the truths of scripture into our souls. He’s done a great service to the church and is working on his second album now. In this episode he also shares a way that you can get a copy of their Pop Scripture Song album, “Better Than Life” for FREE. Check out the links below.

I’m also excited that I’m able to provide an opportunity right here for you to listen to the album… check it out below!

Links mentioned in this podcast:

  • www.smalltownpoets.tv
  • www.popscripturesongs.com
  • www.noisetrade.com/popscripturesongs – the FREE download link

 

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Meat & Potatoes by Adam ReyThe main music track used in the Christian Home and Family Podcast is entitled, “Midian” and is from Adam Rey’s instrumental album Meat & Potatoes – Adam has generously given me permission to use his music, so please, support his generosity by checking out and purchasing his music at www.heyreyguitar.com – (no affiliate relationship, Adam’s just my friend.) ** these are affiliate links

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